Published: 2026-02-05
Updated: 2026-02-05
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"Many people ignore the finish line for fear of being alone, even if their relationship is "below average." However, feeling lonely in a relationship is far more devastating than actually being alone."
Is your relationship really working, or are you just killing time?
If the following signs sound familiar to you, you may have reached that "threshold moment":
1. Are you communicating or building walls?
Evasive answers ("I'm fine," "No problem") are not communication. If you hesitate to discuss critical issues with your partner, fearing their reaction or remaining silent for fear of disrupting the peace, that relationship has begun to drain you instead of nurturing you.
2. Loss of Continuity in Behavior
Has sex decreased? Are you no longer spending quality time together? Not every decline in routine is a sign of a breakup, but if these changes become permanent and can't be discussed, it's a warning sign.
Remember: Instead of blaming, open the conversation by saying, "This is how I feel." If the other person is still defensive, you're no longer on the same page.
3. Don't fall into the "settling for what you have" trap.
Your expectations today might not be the same as they were 10 years ago. People change. Don't settle for unhappiness just because it's a habit or to avoid "returning to the old ways." Ask yourself this question: Where would I be right now if I had prioritized myself?
4. That "Threshold Moment"
The decision to end a relationship usually comes suddenly. When the question "Should I break up?" gives way to the clarity of "I should break up," be honest with yourself. Let go of the fear of failure; you deserve the love and happiness you desire.
In conclusion: If a relationship doesn't make you feel good, it's no longer "working." Don't stand still when you can spread your wings and fly.
